Family Matters

Why is it family stuff can be so hard? Most of you know the situation with my brother and that he doesn't want anything to do with us or my parents. For those of you who don't basically there was a lot said on both sides and it pretty much ended in this really awkward, estranged situation.

It's easier for me because I live in Virginia but my parents live in the same town that he does, so they are reminded quite often of the situation.

Why is it that we can't forgive and move on?

Colossians 3:13 Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another.

My brother and his wife are expecting their first child and although I did not get invited and really haven't talked with them in a few years I still feel compelled to do something. After all he is still my brother and she will be my niece. I worry though that the gift will not be very well received. And, it may make things worse for my parents. It's one of those times I wish I knew the right answer. I may not know the right answer but God does.

Romans 8:28 - And we know that for those who love God, that is, for those who are called according to his purpose, all things are working together for good.

I Peter 5:7 - Turn all your anxiety over to God because he cares for you.

Please pray for me that God would lead and that I would follow his direction in this situation.